Forever in Lust: Meet Bachelorette Saddaf Yusef

Valentine’s Day is swiftly rounding the corner which means life is about to revolve around aggressive PDA, risqué lingerie shopping, and corny date ideas. Unless of course you’re single and all alone…

Not to worry San Diego singles, DiscoverSD is here to help you find romance this Valentine’s Day by hooking you up with the hottest guys and gals in the industry. From bartenders to DJs and notorious party girls, we rounded up your favorite industry singles and are hosting the first ever Valentine’s Day Industry Bachelor & Bachelorette Auction: Forever in Lust on Sunday, February 13th at the W Hotel benefiting the American Heart Association. RSVP now at DiscoverSD.com/Events!

One of our sexy San Diego single women up for auction is Saddaf Yusef. From her foodie obsessions to the deal-breaker qualities she most desires in a man, get to know our featured industry bachelorette.

DiscoverSD: Hi sexy! Tell us a little about yourself. What’s your name? Where are you from? How old are you? What are kind of personality traits do you have?
Saddaf Yusef: My name is Saddaf. I was born in San Diego, and still living here. Not often that you run into one of us natives. I’d prefer not to answer the age question, can we just say I’m over 21, but still have some time before I hit the big 30 (if you really must know, I’m 27 but let’s just keep that between us ;). As far as my personality goes, I’m very mature yet I have a child-like playfulness to me. If you’re having a bad day, I can always make you smile. I’m really goofy, and light-hearted. I consider myself to be emotional and very passionate.

DSD: What part of the “industry” are you in?
Saddaf: VIP Bottle service.

DSD: Where can we find you hanging out on any given weekend night?
Saddaf: Side Bar, I’m usually working on weekends. The question is, where am I on week nights?

DSD: Now let’s get a little more personal, describe to us your ideal guy. What does he look like? What kind of qualities does he have?
Saddaf: Looks aren’t deal breakers, however I need to be attracted to guy on some level, whether it be intellectually, emotionally, or personality. If I am going to describe physical attributes I find the most attractive, I’d have to say that I can’t resist a tall man. I’m only 5’4’’ so being with someone that is a foot or more taller than me is, well, kind of a turn on. I’m also a hands person, I freak out if a guy has smaller hands than me. A little chest hair is a good thing. I’m a sucker for facial hair (like the scruffy haven’t shaved in a week look). For qualities I look for in a guy, honesty is first. A man who is sincere, genuine, and chivalrous will win my heart. Does chivalry still exist? A modest man and humble man is one of the most attractive qualities in a world where everyone is busy boasting about their money and social status. I like a man who is respectful, loyal, ambitious, intelligent, family-oriented and has a sense of humor that can make me laugh until my stomach hurts.

DSD: Why are you single?
Saddaf: I’m picky. I guess I just haven’t found anyone that’s on the same page as me and I won’t compromise what I stand for just to avoid being single.

DSD: If money wasn’t an object, what would you plan for an ideal date?
Saddaf: For once I’d like a guy to take initiative. I’m very old-fashion when it comes to dating and the whole courting stage of a relationship. I want a guy who will be the man in a relationship, who will be romantic and CHIVALROUS and plan a date from the moment it starts until the moment it ends. Money isn’t a factor, and the more money spent wouldn’t necessarily make it a good date. It would be the thought behind planning the evening that would make it an ideal date.

DSD: Have you ever been arrested?
Saddaf: No. But I’ve been in handcuffs if that counts ;)

DSD: What’s your biggest turn on?
Saddaf: My biggest turn on is a protective man. Someone that I can feel safe with, someone who will have my back, no matter what.

DSD: Tell us something about you that we don’t know.
Saddaf: I’m an introvert at the core. Oh and I’m really clumsy.

DSD: If you could kidnap and lock anyone up in your basement, who would it be?
Saddaf: For torture or pleasure?

DSD: If you could pick only one, which would you be and why: Rich, Famous or Attractive?
Saddaf: Well if I HAD to choose only one, I would choose to be famous. Famous for doing something huge, making a difference in this world, making my mark :)

DSD: What do you think about public displays of affection?
Saddaf: Personally I hate when I see couples all over each other in public, it’s like “hello, get a room!” However, I’ve kind of been guilty of it myself lol. Sometimes when you’re super into someone it’s hard to keep your hands off of each other. I hope no one has ever looked at me like that though. I’m a very affectionate person, and I’m okay with public displays of affection as long as it’s PG and not overly excessive.

DSD: What makes you a “catch?”
Saddaf: I don’t take myself too seriously, I can laugh at myself and I do often. I have my insecurities just like everyone else, but I don’t let that get in my way. I’m supportive, loving, trustful, and loyal. I understand that relationships are about compromise, give and take.

DSD: What embarrassing incident would you flat out refuse to tell us about?
Saddaf: Nice try.

DSD: Are you the single type or the relationship type?
Saddaf: I’m the single type because I won’t settle just so I can be in a relationship. I love being in a relationship, but it needs to be with the right person. When I’m single, I treat myself better than any guy has ever treated me. I’m the best date to myself, if I may so ;)

DSD: If you were a stalker, would you be good at it?
Saddaf: Ya I think so. I can be pretty talented at being sneaky.

DSD: Do you have any “bad habits”?
Saddaf: I have a shopping problem. I’m kind of impulsive, and when I see something I love I must have it.

DSD: If we Googled you, would we be more likely to date you, less likely to date you or remain completely uniformed?
Saddaf: I don’t know, why don’t you Google me and tell me what you come up with.

DSD: If you could have one superpower, what would it be and why?
Saddaf: I would like the ability to fly. But I’m going to choose just one more, I’d also like to read minds. How cool would that be?

DSD: Do you snore?
Saddaf: I think I do ;) It’s more of a cute little bunny like snore.

DSD: Have you ever been told you look like someone famous?
Saddaf: A few. Always the same few. I don’t see the resemblances however.

DSD: What’s your best joke?
Saddaf: I’m not good at telling jokes, in fact I’m awful. I’m also horrible to tell a joke to, I pretty much always miss the punch line.

DSD: What’s your favorite domestic animal? 3 reasons why.
Saddaf: I love doggies. Cute little fluffy, huggable, lovable doggies. I’ve had quite the case of doggie fever lately. Dogs are loyal, and they’re always excited to see you! Who needs a man when you have a dog? Ha ha

DSD: What’s your favorite wild animal? 3 reasons why.
Saddaf: Wild animals scare me. Although I’d really love to have my own elephant one day. I think they are the most adorable animal, even though they weigh over quite a few tons.

DSD: If you were on a deserted beach, give us three emotions you would feel.
Saddaf: Peaceful, content, and maybe lonely.

DSD: If you were in a forest, what three emotions would you feel?
Saddaf: Wild, nervous, free.

DSD: If you were in a room surrounded by people dressed in white, what three emotions you would feel?
Saddaf: This is a random question. I don’t really know what three emotions I’d be feeling.

DSD: What’s your favorite food?
Saddaf: I’m a foodie. I don’t discriminate. If it’s yummy, I’ll eat it. One thing I couldn’t live without would be dessert. I have a sweet tooth and when I’m eating something that’s so scrumptious, it’s pretty orgasmic. TMI?

Forever in Lust: Love Saddaf? So do we! Come meet the lovely Saddaf and win a date at the DiscoverSD Charity Bachelor and Bachelorette Auction Forever in Lust at W San Diego Hotel benefitting the American Heart Association on Sunday, February 13, 2011. Get more details and RSVP now at DiscoverSD.com/Events!

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