A common question in the mailbag is how to handle the burning desire for someone who already has a special someone. While I respect the commitment between two individuals, I also see them for exactly what they are -- two individuals. It is for that reason that I heartily endorse the expression of one’s interest in a beauty who happens to have a beau. Some people would say that makes me an inconsiderate jerk, I say that makes me a cog in the relationship food chain; a champion of the natural process.

SAN DIEGO, Calif.: FlawLes, San Diego’s Lesbian Lifestyle & Entertainment Media movement, in continuation with its proud tradition as the ‘IT’ pool party of San Diego Pride for lesbian and queer women, proudly announces the details of its 2010 event.

On Sunday, July 18, FlawLes will storm The Ivy Rooftop of Andaz San Diego (formerly the Ivy Hotel) to wrap up the weekend’s festivities with a splash of style. The Sunday Funday will accommodate guests kicked back in cabanas, wading in the blue waters, and dancing poolside ‘til the sun goes down at “3-feet Under.”

I remember my very first night in a gay club. It was back in New York when I was a freshman in college. I got in with a New Hampshire drivers license -- a hand-me-down from my roommate’s big sister. Her eyes were green. It worked anyway. I remember parking in the church lot across the street and crawling out from the backseat of a two-door Honda. Some six of us girls crossed Lark Street within the epic silence that glows under street lamps after midnight.

Back in January, stand-up comedian & celesbian personality, Rosie O’Donnell announced that she would make her anticipated return to stand-up comedy on Friday, April 2, at the Palm Springs Convention Center as a part of The Dinah (Club Skirts presentation of Dinah Shore weekend 2010).

A few weeks later, O'Donnell canceled her appearance. According to the official press release from the Club Skirts promotions team, the show was canceled because of O'Donnell's desire to "remain in Miami with her children over Spring break."