Of all my columns, the most popular – by far – is on monogamy and open relationships. I also did workshops on this topic in San Diego and Los Angeles a few years ago, and sold out both cities. Why is this topic such a hot one? Let’s begin with a few questions.
• For me, what would be the purpose of an open relationship and of monogamy?
• What are the pros and cons of each?
• What does “emotional monogamy” mean to me?
• Could my partner and I remain emotionally committed to each other while having sex with other people?