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Fruit Fly in the City: To top or to bottom, that is the question

S.T. Fernandez – SDGLN Social Commentator
September 7th, 2010

I have to give it up to my fruits. They make a lot of sacrifices to please the one they love (or at least for the guy they bring home for one night).

I don’t believe it’s possible for me to complain about any part of my dating process ever again. Gay men have to go through some serious complications in their dating world.

I’ve always said that it’s a woman’s responsibility to please her man. This doesn’t mean you have to go out and bang every Dick, Bob and Harry just to get a little experience under your belt.

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Berwyn, Ill., pushes to attract same-sex couples

Chicago Tribune
September 6th, 2010

BERWYN, Ill. -- Marge Paul can sit on the front porch of her Berwyn home, look at the crisscrossing, bungalow-lined streets to the north and south, and smile about something many don't realize.

"I know there's a gay or lesbian couple on just about every block," said Paul, Berwyn's 3rd Ward alderman and the city's first openly gay elected official. "But I think there are some gays and lesbians in Berwyn who still think they're the only ones."

VIDEO: Councilmember Carl DeMaio and publisher Johnathan Hale raise money for Stepping Stone

SDGLN Staff
September 3rd, 2010

SAN DIEGO – City Councilmember Carl DeMaio and Johnathan Hale, publisher of Hale Media, Inc., opened up their home on Aug. 22 for a barbecue to benefit Stepping Stone of San Diego.

“Open House – Open Hearts” raised $4,400, which will help the agency’s continue its life-saving mission to provide programs and services to those suffering from alcohol and other drug addictions as well as HIV/AIDS.

Activist Jennifer Schumaker is in spotlight at Sept. 7 “Coffee & Conversation with Cool Women”

SDGLN Staff
September 1st, 2010

SAN DIEGO -- Human rights activist, writer and mom Jennifer Schumaker will be the featured guest this month at “Coffee & Conversation with Cool Women.”

Host Tryce Czyczynska, a San Diego Gay & Lesbian News contributor, will interview Schumaker at the free event, which begins at 7 p.m. Tuesday, Sept. 7, in the Women’s Resource Center at The Center in Hillcrest.

Fruit Fly in the City: Who’s going to be Miss Fruit Fly San Diego 2011?

S.T. Fernandez – SDGLN Social Commentator
August 31st, 2010

When a special fruit, Fernan Passionfruit, approached me about organizing the Miss Fruit Fly San Diego 2011 pageant, I couldn’t say no. I had never heard of there being such a pageant before. It was fascinating!

Apparently, Passionfruit had been doing a bit of research about such a pageant. There’s one being held in New York every year using the term I like least. So, for now (or at least in my column), we will refer to this pageant being held in New York as the “Miss Produce Girl” pageant.

Early-bird prices end Aug. 31 for "Catch the Spirit" boat-cruise fundraiser

Ben Cartwright - SDGLN Staff Writer
August 30th, 2010

SAN DIEGO – Early bird prices end Tuesday, Aug. 31, for the San Diego Human Dignity Foundation’s annual boat cruise and champagne brunch.

The “Catch the Spirit” event will be on Sunday, Sept. 19. Boarding passes are on sale now.

“Catch the Spirit” will honor the individuals and organizations that are committed to improving the quality of life in San Diego’s LGBT community by promoting responsible philanthropy and enacting positive social change. Proceeds from the event will help the foundation continue its mission of serving and supporting the San Diego LGBT community.

Gay Mormon social network Cor Invictus to launch

SDGLN Staff
August 30th, 2010

Set to launch in the immediate future is a social network focused on the gay and lesbian Mormon community.

The website will offer advice, counseling and a safe online community for gay and lesbian Mormons.

The site is called Cor Invictus, a Latin phrase that loosely translates to “Unconquered Heart.” It differs from other online communities for gays and lesbians of the Mormon faith by being open to all, no matter the individual’s current standing in the LDS church.

Five easy ways to let your date know you're interested

The Nuera Network
August 27th, 2010

Dating is not easy in the 21st century. But here are five tips on how to let your date know that you really are interested.

1. Look your best. Wear something attractive that compliments your personality and style. Be sure to groom and wear an appropriate scent. Looking your best on your date sends out a positive message that you are interested.

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“End of Summer Back to School Party” is Saturday at #1 Fifth Avenue

SDGLN Staff
August 27th, 2010

SAN DIEGO – Just before local college students head back to classes, it’s time to fight the back-to-school blues with a special party.

SDPIX and #1 Fifth Avenue will present the “End of Summer Back to School Party” from 2 to 6 p.m. Saturday.

Host Shaun Flak will welcome the boys of USD, UCSD, SDSU, City College, other colleges and universities, and their friends and admirers to the bar for an afternoon of drink specials and drinking games such as Flip Cup, Quarters and Beer Pong.

Tickets on sale for Sunday’s Nicky Awards

SDGLN Staff
August 27th, 2010

SAN DIEGO -- Tickets are still available for the 35th annual Nicky Awards.

The event will begin at 6 p.m. Sunday at The Center in Hillcrest. Tickets are $50 for general admission and $75 for VIP seating.

The Nicky Awards, one of the oldest GLBT community awards events in the country, honor outstanding achievement in arts, social service, entertainment, nightlife, business, dining, activism, philanthropy, volunteerism and individual accomplishment from San Diego’s thriving GLBT community supporters and allies.