The next generation of our community is here.

It’s arrived in full force with bells, whistles and…booty shorts…and… glitter. As our community progresses, its volunteers, activists, participants and leaders change. In a perfect world, the standing generation would mentor, teach, and pass the torch on to the new generation. But this is not happening enough.

All my life I have heard about how hospitable Southerners are. “Southern Hospitality,” they say, “defines a culture and a people.” To be honest, I have never understood what this term, Southern Hospitality, really means. I myself have never felt especially hospitable, even though I spent the first 25 years of my life in Alabama, Tennessee and Mississippi.

But as I pondered what to write about my grandmother, Nana, upon her passing at age 93 this week, it hit me. I finally realize what Southern Hospitality is.

"I had five guys looking at my shriveled, burned penis. It was the most painful thing I have ever experienced in my life. I'm good...now. Now my penis is fantastic. One hundred percent recovered. Put me back in the game, Coach." - Channing Tatum tells "Details" magazine about a mishap on the set of "The Eagle of the Ninth" which included a wet suit, cold temperatures, and a kettle of boiling water. I'll leave the rest to your imagination - but I'll run an unscorched pic of his penis on BillyMasters.com.

“Hey, we need to add dildos to the list. Oh, and we need more Red Bull…let the office know.” A few weeks ago, when I was writing, the background noise would have been incoming warning sirens and explosions. Right now, it’s moaning and directions of “move that leg” and “do we have more lube?”

Mind you- I have two degrees and three combat tours. Its mind boggling that the first job I get after leaving the military is working in porn. My mother would be so proud. The craziest part is that working with models and working with soldiers is very similar.