(Editor's note: If you would like to share an important memory about your first Gay Pride parade, sent a submission to SDGLN Editor in Chief Ken Williams at ken@sdgln.com. San Diego Pride Parade will be on July 21 this year. Today's commentary is by Barb Hamp Weicksel, who was born in 1952 in a small town in Pennsylvania. "I moved to California in the early 1980s, met my partner Susan and knew she was the love of my life," Barb said. "Thing was -- I was married -- so was she. ...