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TRAVEL: Summer in Seattle

SEATTLE -- This city – sculpted by Puget Sound and Lake Washington, and crowned with leafy hills – abounds with lively diversions, both indoor and outside. A sunny and mild climate from June through well into October makes it one of the country’s most enchanting summer destinations.

Laura Jane: Mistress of all ceremonies

(This story originally appeared HERE in Gay San Diego.)

When Laura Jane Willcock left Traverse City, Mich. behind in 2001 and touched down in San Diego to start anew with her young son Dylan, it was mere days before 9/11.

“Our belongings hadn’t even arrived from Michigan yet,” Laura Jane said.

Profiles in Advocacy: AIDS Research Institute, working to end HIV

It occurred to me that it was time to write about the nonprofit for which I work: the AIDS Research Institute (ARI). Founded in 1997, the ARI is the Organized Research Unit (ORU) of UC San Diego that both links the many HIV/AIDS programs at the university together as well as provides a bridge between those programs and the larger community.

Has hooking up become boring?

(This post originally appeared HERE in SDGLN media partner Gay San Diego.)

While everybody is talking about hooking up, no one is exactly sure what it means. Here are some characteristics I discovered:

• Almost any sexual act. A hookup can range from a make-out session to full out sex;

• Sexual activity outside the context of a romantic relationship;

• No commitment involved. If you hook up, the other person might have no expectations of hooking up with you again.

AIDS Memorial Grove accepting scholarship applications

(This post originally appeared HERE in Gay San Diego, a SDGLN media partner.)

SAN FRANCISCO -- The San Francisco-based National AIDS Memorial Grove is now accepting scholarship applications for their Young Leaders Scholarship Program, which recognizes and encourages “the educational efforts of young people committed to active public service and leadership roles in the fight against HIV/AIDS,” a press release stated. Applications are being accepted through Sept. 30.

Monogamy, emotional monogamy, and open relationships

Of all my columns, the most popular – by far – is on monogamy and open relationships. I also did workshops on this topic in San Diego and Los Angeles a few years ago, and sold out both cities. Why is this topic such a hot one? Let’s begin with a few questions.

Ask yourself:

• For me, what would be the purpose of an open relationship and of monogamy?

• What are the pros and cons of each?

• What does “emotional monogamy” mean to me?

• Could my partner and I remain emotionally committed to each other while having sex with other people?

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COMMENTARY: Building bridges in District 4

Editors note: Following Tuesday night's City of San Diego special election, Dwayne Crenshaw and Myrtle Cole - who are both vying for the District 4 city council seat - will advance to a run-off election, which will be scheduled within 49 days.

It’s no secret that I get excited about things and invest myself it something very much.

Most recently I have been working to help Dwayne Crenshaw win election to the open Fourth District City Council seat.

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Profiles in Advocacy: Celebrating the power and legacy of women

As March comes to a close, I want to honor Women’s History Month by focusing locally on the San Diego Women’s Foundation (SDWF) and nationally on the National Women’s History Museum. Both of these institutions celebrate the power of women in shaping the landscape in which we live.

Stress: Enemy or secret friend?

You hear a lot of talk about stress: “I’m so stressed out” or “My job is so stressful,” but what exactly is stress? I’ve read a lot of definitions and most of them focus on the worry and anxiety that come with stress.

But what about stress as being healthy? Without some kind of stress, wouldn’t we all just lie around and eat Godiva chocolates all day, watching too much reality TV?

South Bay Pride: It's not just a party

A few months ago, a friend said, “I like to focus myself on other endeavors besides throwing just a party” in response to discussing the work that went into organizing a Pride event.

Although I didn’t receive this well, I let it slide. After all, we all have to choose where to focus our energies. Even so, this statement has stuck with me because Pride is not “just a party.”

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