You wouldn't know it by her powerful portrayal of a closeted lesbian discharged from the military because of “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell,” but actress Dreya Weber is married. To a man.

That man, Ned Farr, also happens to be her boss. Or was, at least, while he was directing her in their new project, “A Marine Story,” a poignant film about discrimination, homophobia, hate crimes, meth labs and a gay American soldier forced to hide her sexuality – or else.